I been told by a friend that I don't know what I am looking for, so here is a point to prove to him.
Please do not take this personally, there is always something about someone we do not like, I am sure some items on my list is less or more important than others. I am not perfect myself, far from it!
If anyone has 90% of this list, please do not hesitate to contact me. I AM NOT ASKING FOR MUCH (This list will be constantly renewed or numbers added)
1. Must be an animal lover
2. Doesn't smoke
3. Doesn't take drugs
4. Doesn't drink often, not heavily, occasionally or once a month mostly at home
5. Tall, I like tall men
6. Mature, no use both being innocent. (Cough!)
7. Good sense of humour
8. Relaxed personality,
9. Good talker, and keeps in touch
10. Must be honest
11. Must be loyal
12. Looks not too bothered, I don't like too good looking, because everyone else is interested in him, and he probably
knows it.
13. Must be understanding, be a good listener
14. Must not be a slapper. I noted something in papers, I liked, I am looking for a wolf, not a domestic dog in a relationship.
(No offence Moss, I do still love you millions)
15. Looking for an intelligent guy, streetwise, no use both being vulnerable
16. Must be very caring towards me
17. Must be straight to the point
18. Must be open
19. Must say exactly how he feels, bad consequences of not. Tell me if he is just looking for sex, or relationship, because I am not quick on the uptake on what men are looking for.
20. Must not have full self importance in a relationship
21. If he's interested in you, he shows how much, rather than going around shagging others whilst you change your
mind
22. Must not be moody, huffy, and grumpy
23. Must be a bit jealous, I think it's cute, but not being over powering control freak.
24. Must be honest on how he feels about me, and show it
25. Must do spur of the moment surprises, but pleasant surprises please. I would like him to surprise me at the
door,with a bunch of flowers, or something else. As I would enjoy doing for him.
26. Must follow his heart not his dick
27. Must love you for who you are, not what you got or what position, no stereotype.
28. Must be sensible and intelligent, with just a touch of big kid, no use have two nutcases, balance would be uneven. A bit similar to my ex, where if I talk too much, he lets me know but in a nice funny way, which I still smile at one of
my ex's lines. There is one way to keep you quiet?. Let you guess what it was.
30. I can't stand men saying that his girlfriend, ex, female, whatever, puts him in his place, it sounds like a mummies
boy, or prefers to be kept under the thumb. I prefer a man to wear the trousers if, but not a control freak. I prefer it to be equal, but he must be able to take control of a situation, it's no use both running about as a headless chicken.
31. I like a good dressed guy, good taste, not brands, just goes well. Example: don't like seeing trainers with a suit, or vice versa
32. Don't mind religion, but it must not control life
33. Must be very open minded on other religions
34. Must admit when he is wrong and not bite my head off when realising.
35. Must not be to much overweight, well I am half and half, if over weight it makes me think he's lazy, but it could also to do with job, but it must all be in proportion.
36. Must have good imagination in the bed
37. Even though I am domineering a bit in bed, it's also good if he can be too, it's a put off if he just lies there and takes
it constantly.
38. I prefer a man to say a few things whilst shagging, for all you know he might have something or someone else
on mind, know a guy who told me whilst shagging his partner he thinks of a certain other person, Yuk!
39. Must be hygienic, can't stand men who firstly do not wash hands after they go to the toilet
40. Must notice me from the crowd, and want only me. (This is getting to wet, I blame having sneak previews of my
mums mills and boons when I was I kid).
41. Must be very open minded
42. I would prefer a vegetarian if not, he does not have any meat in house, I would be sick.
43. Must like dancing, any sort will do
44. Must go out of his way to do anything for me
45. Must make me a touch nervous,
46. Money, mmmh! It is all very well wanting a rich man, but every other female or even male, would be after him. He
must be able to look after himself financially, because I haven't got any! He must be able to handle money.
47. Must not be a sloppy eater
48. Something from the norm
49. Must be able to drive, but not important,just don't ask me for lessons.
50. Must have a lot of patience, I haven't got any, except for my dogs, so need someone to balance it off.
51. Must not want to be Daddy figure with me, I don't want to be the 689th? billionth person to have a child, think we
are over populated as it is.
52. Must have a bit of class, handsome sort of, classy
53. Must be able to do a bit of DIY. I mean joinery, electrical work etc. I do not mean sexually, so not comments please.
If he can't, he has money to pay for one, unless he wants me to clue it on wall with no nails, and be aware, it won't
stay up.
54. Must have a strong personality. He must be able to stand up for what he believes in and his rights.
55. He must be able to defend himself, even though he probably won't need to because he got me, I would jump in first.
Which I can never understand these old films. The woman watches her partner getting attacked and just stands
there screaming. Screaming!!! You hear me screaming at the television, why the hell are you standing there, get in
and help you stupid bitch! I need to turnover, because it just gets right up my nose!!!
56. I like a man to cook, if not, tough, he will have to live on vegetarian diet. I am not cooking meat for anyone, except
my dogs.
57. He must be tidy, it would be great having a man to pick up after me. Joking! I cannot stand dirty socks and pants on
the floor.
58. I don't mind if he doesn't do a job straight away, as long as he's aware what is important and what isn't. I
believe, our basket will still be full when we die.
59. I can't stand a man who fidgets, it makes me uncomfy
60. This is most important. He must not talk as common as muck, or talk as a 15 year old or teeny bop does, or swears
in every sentence, it bugs me. I don't mind swearing if annoyed, but not every second. But the common as much, I
give example
"I want to lick your pussy", (I am riled even hearing it again) or just read
"Suck my arse you slaaags!". Ugh!
"Or you know what I mean like", (Like) Eek!
61. Must be able to remove any doubt I have, to give me 100% reassurance
62. Must always have arm round me when a sleep or vice versa. I can't stand back to back in the bed.
63. Must not give the silent treatment, think that is so immature, say what you got to say it makes atmosphere easier, or get over it. If I have upset you, tell me why, and I am sure it can be sorted.
64. Must be preferably older than me, I have tried younger, didn't work. The main point here, if he is younger no more than 2, but it all depends on the maturity of the person.
65. Must not be on rebound. Or have just separated, or still have feelings. It doesn't work. OR IN A RELATIONSHIP OR MARRIED, if on rebound we become good friends.
66. Can't stand men who pick nose in public
67. Must not fart in public or in company, purposely and think it's amusing. It's ill mannered and immature.
68. Must not be a gambler
69. Must not look for sympathy vote, feel sorry for me person.
70. Can't stand men who try and put you on a guilt trip
71. Please offer to do something willingly without expecting an approval. I do not like giving approval on an expectation.
72. It gets me concerned, and I have asked around, when all his females friends are 10 plus years younger, think it's a
thought for concern.
73. Mostly important, I must not be his second choice, or his safety net
74. Must not hang on, if he feels it is not working, break it off. Do not hang on until somebody else comes along. It wastes my time and probably his.
75. Must not be into wife swapping
76. Must not have a beard of moustache, unless small or trimmed.
77. Must enjoy his time spent with me.
78. Must have good teeth, or partly, unless there is a medical reason
79. Must not be into partying every night, enjoy nights in by fire
80. I must be all that he is looking for
81. Must not be a woman misers, or think the work is called fickle.
82. Must be pretend to be stubborn, or is stubborn, usually caused by self importance. I don't like doing all the chasing, phoning. It becomes boring and exhausting. The relationship would also become too much uneven
83. I can't stand men who say "oh, I sorted him out, etc", being the hard man, secondly, when something does happen he suddenly hides in a corner.
84. Must be able to judge and think for himself. Can't stand people who jump on the band wagon. As soon as one quotes a line, the rest join in.
85. Must be in a professional positon, or very sharp
I find people who are in a professional position can actually understand me, but others have difficulty. so....
ie: Solicitors has had no problem understanding me, Lady is in charge of a tribual case, Teacher who lived next door.
My boss in Glasgow no problem.
85. Must not be lazy listeners.
I HAVEN'T FINISHED YET???'TO BE CONTINUED
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